You should only pray for your spiritual progress. And for your ancestors to be elevated, to be born in the high realms. We should practice spiritually, to make up for our mistakes and to earn more merits. To save our soul. It doesn’t matter if we die because we will die one day. It’s important. It’s not about dying; it’s about living. When we are living, we should know how. We should take care of our soul; take care of our inside quality.