“Love your children, love yourself first. Couples, love each other, love your children, love your grandparents.” And you never make up for the time that you did not give. This is very important. When they are teenagers and babies, they need so much love. If they haven’t receives this love, they spend a whole life trying to find the love they did not receive their whole life. Sometimes during their life they cannot even catch it. Father Gilbert feels that as long as we are not sensitive to the suffering of others, we are unable to understand anything.